You are given customer profile data from ACME House CRM and ACME House Checkout, and some fields conflict across sources. Write a PostgreSQL query that returns one resolved row per customer for customers who appear in both systems. For each customer, choose the most trustworthy email and city using this logic: prefer the value from the most recently updated record; if the latest value is NULL or an empty string, fall back to the other source. Also return a discrepancy_flag of 'conflict' when the non-blank values differ across the two sources, otherwise 'match_or_missing'.